June 30, 2018

Memoirs: 4 Ways To Discover Your True Self

Please note, this is a collaborative post with Numerologist. 

Discovering with your true self comes with age. Something kicked in when I turned 27 (not the very moment), but I came to a point of self-contentment where I’d truly discovered the ‘true’ me. Anything prior to this age helped me to get where I am today with all the experiences, moments and things I went through. 

Read more: Memoirs: 27


Take a moment to reflect about who you think you are, what others think of you (ask for feedback), where you want to be and how to get there. discovering your true self takes high emotional intelligence, self critique and realising your strengths and weaknesses.


If it wasn’t for blogging and growing up somewhat, I would still be stuck in my old ways. Discovering your true self means learning to shake off the fear and the doubt and attempt the unknown. You never know what part of life you’re missing out on or what passion is waiting to be unawakened. You may even begin to find the hidden meaning behind numbers in your life. I’m very loyal to the number three, so it’d be worth exploring what this means to me.


I can’t express how much travel has helped me discover my true self, but you can by checking out all my travel posts. 

You can discover your true self through travel but seeing a world outside your everyday surroundings, exploring a different environment and developing the real you.

Taking that cliche travel photo…

Read more: Musings: How To Keep The Travel Spirit Alive When You’re Not Travelling 


Letting go is something I occasionally struggle with as I let things get to me too much. However, reflecting, travelling and doing things differently help me to forget about the everyday stresses of life and help me focus on being me, unapologetically.

Read more: The Art of Letting Go 

What ways have you discovered your true self?

Char xo

Please note, this is a collaborative post with Numerologist. 

6 responses to “Memoirs: 4 Ways To Discover Your True Self”

  1. Lia says:

    I actually have a post coming up on letting go! Its pretty tricky. Great read,p I’m all about discovering who I am

  2. Great post girl! Honestly, I think I know myself pretty well, but I’m sure in ten years time I’ll realise I had no clue all along LOL! xx

  3. Metiyachique says:

    Hey, I love how concise and accurate this is 😄 I just wrote a similar post on Finding happiness on my blog too and the essence is pretty similar. Lovely, thank you!

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Welcome to my little space on the internet, known as Memoirs and Musings. I’m Char, short for Charlotte and my blog/website/diary is dedicated to documenting my Memoirs and Musings, hence the name. I wouldn’t say I was your ‘typical’ blogger either. I don’t care about getting the perfect flatlay or feeling bad for not posting, I just enjoy writing. If you’ve made it this far, thank you for reading. Anyway, I love to travel, indulge in a glass of white wine, when plans are cancelled and purchase overpriced make up.  I guess that’s me in a nutshell, trying to figure out this thing called life, have fun and never lose sight.